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BREAKING UP: ASSESS GIFTS YOU GOT, GO TO NEXT TASK
By Sasha Alex Lessin, Dean, School of Counseling
BREAKING UP: ASSESS GIFTS YOU GOT, GO TO NEXT TASK*
By Sasha Alex Lessin, Dean, School of Counseling
https://schoolofcounseling.org/
YOUTUBE: click the words, ”SIGNS YOU NEED TO BREAK UP” on the post below this one.
Daphne Kingma gives us this formula for ending a relationship well:
When you end a primary relationship, you go through stages when you deny,
rage,
blame,
barg...
Build & Maintain FULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS
From TEACH TANTRA TO OTHERS1by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D. (UCLA), Dean, School of Counseling & Janet Kira Lessin, Professor of Tantric Studies, School of Tantra
Use intimate relationships to grow as an individual and create couple or group synergy‑‑more joy, zest and impact than you have alone.
You can create, maintain and develop passionate, loving, tender, empathetic, challenging, responsible and fulfilling committed relationship...
TAKE TURNS AS LOVE-GIVER, THEN AS LOVE-RECEIVER, FOR A DAY * —Do-It-with-Partners Cues
SERVE A WOMAN FOR A DAY
A woman’s the Receiver. You, one or more males or females, are the Giver(s).
Receiver dresses like and lets herself identify with her Inner Voluptuary or another of her sensual subpersonalities.
Giver(s) prepare an appropriate temple in which to worship your Receiver and dress yourself (or yourselves if there’s more than one of you giving) to worship, adore, cherish and serve the Receiver. Play the music she loves, per...
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
https://psychcentral.com/disorders/narcissistic-personality-disorder#Symptoms-of-Narcissistic-Personality-Disorder
Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by a long-standing pattern of grandiosity (either in fantasy or actual behavior), an overwhelming need for admiration, and usually a complete lack of empathy toward others. People with this disorder often believe they are of primary importance in everybody’s life — and to anyone they meet....
Narcissists Who Are Also Psychopaths: The Dark Triad
https://youtu.be/lEpR0bBf_Hk
The most difficult type of narcissist is the psychopath. They are known for exhibiting "the dark triad" of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Dr. Les Carter gives a broad depiction of what to watch for so you can make careful plans about how to protect yourself if this describes someone in your personal circle.
https://www.theguardian.com/science/shortcuts/2016/aug/23/donald-trump-psychopath-hitler
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HOW TO SET AND KEEP BOUNDARIES WITH A NARCISSIST: 6 KEYS
https://youtu.be/UHlcX-vUBZg
https://youtu.be/Qcod_oNOPvI
Surviving Narcissism
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Rather than forcing the narcissist to be different, setting boundaries means you will act upon your good sense regardless of the other person's difficulties. Psychotherapist Dr. Les Carter identifies how narcissists commonly blur boundaries and offers 6 keys for you to establish your own distinct identity. Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author...
10 Ways To Set Boundaries With A Narcissist
I've spent most of my life surrounded by abusive people--my mother, my ex-husbands, a couple of ex-boyfriends. Some were physically abusive. Some were emotionally and psychologically abusive. For years abuse was all I knew. I ran away from it, divorced, moved across the country to the other side of the world (from Pennsylvania to Hawaii). Things improved. I eventually found a man who was kind, loving, and healthy.
But still, despite all the counseli...
Primal Therapy
Primal therapy is a trauma-based psychotherapy created by Arthur Janov, who argues that neurosis is caused by the repressed pain of childhood trauma. Janov argues that repressed pain can be sequentially brought to conscious awareness for resolution through re-experiencing specific incidents and fully expressing the resulting pain during therapy. In therapy, the patient recalls and reenacts a particu...
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